Anal sex ?

My husband really likes having anal. I find pleasure in it after a little bit but I’m always scared to do it.

How safe is it? I don’t want to mess up my body.

I don’t think I should give in to him since he doesn’t do anything to try and make me orgasm.

I’m this close 👌🏼 to being fed up with his selfish ass. I would do anything for him and it seems like he Wouldn’t do anything for me.

~yes I have talked to him about what I want/need. He says I just need some toys so I can finish myself because I take too much work.