🤷🏻‍♀️ The F#ck

This is a long post ! Haha please help a girl out and give me your advice please x

So, I’ve been on a couple of dates with this guy I’ve met that lives about nearly two hours from me. Anyway when we first met it was really great we had a few drinks and then that lead to tequila, which ended back at my place for oonty doonty. Second date, I drive down to where he lives (which is also where I stayed the night) and go out for drinks with his friend and we have a great night. That morning when we were doing it again he said “your a great girlfriend” and I said but you haven’t even asked me out yet ??! And he said I haven’t got around to that part yet... I’m ok with that because I feel like I really connect with him on another level. we spend the day together just hanging out and chatting and getting to know each other more and then I head back home.

. And when he’s home next he’s going to America for 11 days and flys out the day after he gets from work. I’ve asked him if he wants too see me again and he said maybe the night he gets back. But I just told him to let me know because I’ll know he will be buggered etc from work and packing.

He currently works two on and two off. He’s at work right now, and he takes for ever to reply. I’m always the one to message and I feel like I’m being crazy/clingy, so I don’t want to double message. For example; the last message I sent was Monday in the morning and he still never replied, so I messaged him tonight asking how he was and how was work etc. he replies and so forth and then says that he’s going to bed.

But after he’s said that he active for like another 1 hour or so (Facebook message).

He says all these things like I feel like my soul is reaching out to you and I’ve asked him if he sees this going anywhere and he’s said depends on how things go.. I’d like to think so.

But. I just feel like he’s not interested because he kind of got what he wanted (sex) and I feel like he’s doing that bullshit ghosting crap. OR am I being a fucking crazy person ? Should I just chill ? And go with the flow ? Haha 😆 is just so used to guys getting what they want I have no idea what to make of my situation ...

Thanks babes 💋