To make a long story short I have been pregnant twice & miscarried both. Each time I was pregnant, I used preseed. My man made a point that I constantly pushed off because I honestly didnt think lube would do it but he kept saying, "what if preseed caused your miscarriages" after thinking he was a complete nutcase, one night I decided to do some research. Obviously preseed is a lube that neutralizes ph balance to let sperm to the egg. BUT it allows weak sperm to pass through as well, thus making a pregnancy not viable. So it has been sitting with me and I'm honestly thinking that could have been a strong possibility. I want my own baby so bad. I'm willing to try preseed again, but I'm honestly terrified and I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or opinions on what I should do? I know there's a 50 50 chance no matter what. I just had success twice with preseed getting pregnant I know it would help again. I'm just scared it will lead to another miscarriage due to weak sperm. Do I make sense or do I sound like a complete nut case? Someone HELP 🤦‍♀️