So frustrated 😔

I live in a legal state and have been a smoker for years. My hubby wants me to just quit because hes worried about it affecting the development of baby. Im 8 weeks along. I dont see the harm if im not smoking it. Im a very intelligent person and my mom smoked all through her pregnancy with me, hes set on it making our baby a slow learner with behavior problems. I have to take what he says into concideration hes my husband and the father but damn.

End rant.