My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. While that’s not long, we are very serious. He had a female friend when I met him and I was cool with it at first until I found out they used to talk. It made me a little uncomfortable but I worked past it because I wanted him to keep his original friends regardless of my feelings. UNTIL, he told me that he decided not to be friends wit her anymore because he wouldn’t want me to be friends with someone I used to talk to. He told her that and blocked her. She made ALL new social media to reach out to him and ended up making up a story about how she’ll kill herself and she needs him. I allowed it at first. He told her he could talk to her if she ever needed to vent but that the days he’s with me Tuesday, Friday, and Saturday the he would prefer her not message him. She started ONLY texting him on those three days. And it wasn’t “I need help or to vent” messages but memes about sex or just selfies of her. He would show me and never reply to her. I ended up telling him that she’s got to go and he blocked her again on all social media. Ladies, don’t listen to that bull about letting your men be friends with the same people just because they were there before you. People that could even add toxicity to your relationship should be cancelled ASAP. That goes for guy friends too, the ones that try to get your guy to go out with them because THEY ARE single. I firmly believe that the less people involved in your relationship the stronger it will be.