He doesn't realize that he is making it easier every single day to make it on my own. He is teaching me that I can do it on my own.

I can afford diapers and food for us.

I can get my baby in and out of the car on my own.

I can go to the store with just us two and be fine, all on my own.

I can go to doctor visits, with a 15 months old, while pregnant... On my own.

You not being there, but "being there" is helping me be on my own.

You going to every single appointment with our first, and now not going to any.. guess what? It's fine because I can do it on my own..

I don't want to, but I can do it all on my own...