Horrible First Appointment!

Jennifer

Today I went to the local clinic to get the pregnancy confirmation to send to the Women’s Center where I will be going for my OB checkups.

I now have to do an ultrasound tomorrow.

He didn’t like the fact that I didn’t have a menstrual cycle in between my “supposed” miscarriage...since I never went and got it confirmed. (I bled heavier than a menstrual cycle for 4 days with a few ‘clots’)

He wants to make sure we’re really looking at 6 weeks instead of 10 weeks.

After fighting for myself and defending myself against all the comments about not trusting me about having my “said miscarriage”, I finally had to give in to everything.

He did a great job at making me feel stupid.

I’m so upset I went to the local clinic for what should have been a routine pee in a cup, instead of going to the Women’s Center. 😔 I don’t do well with being treated that way.

At least I get an ultrasound out of it 🙃

**Update**

The ultrasound tech was a little annoyed at the doctor for not trusting me and what I said about my miscarriage. But she was super sweet and reassured my husband and I repeatedly that I was right and to always trust my judgement. I am measuring at 6 weeks 3 days, when <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.nurture">Nurture</a> has showed me at 6 weeks 4 days. Our local clinic doesn’t have very many pregnancies stay here in town, so they don’t have all the fancy printing qualities. My husband took this with his phone.