I’m 8 weeks pregnant, and EXHAUSTED. I work full time, 10 pm-6 am. I’m so damn tired all of the time and feel like I’m failing as a wife. I’m too tired to do things around the house, and especially cook (mostly because of sense of smell is sensitive and I get sick over everything!)

I feel so bad for my husband having to come home after work and I’m still asleep, and the house is a mess.

And to add, because I know some of you are feisty. I am in no way saying it’s the woman’s job to cook and clean. However, in my house it’s mostly me cleaning and cooking unless I ask him to do something or help.

So him having to take it all on at once is making me feel guilty, even though he has no problem helping out. I just hate nagging him when more things need attention, and I’m not doing anything.

When did y’all stop feeling so damn exhausted and actually have energy??