forced to name my baby something I don’t want???

Hello everyone. Basically my husband is trying to force me to name our baby #2 after his mom if it’s a girl (we don’t know the gender yet). First of all I hate his moms name in general. Second of all his mom hates my guts and has done despicable things to me and he knows this. Our first daughter has a beautiful name. He’s one of those people who want to name our kids after our parents. I hate that idea. But for our daughter I asked him if we can pick together. He hated the names I suggested and helped me pick one. For the middle name he didn’t want a middle name at all. I told him I really wanted one and one day since he saw how much I struggled with the pregnancy he told me “I see how much you struggled you can use the middle name you want” I asked him if he was sure and he promised me he was. Fast forward now that we’re pregnant again he’s throwing the fact that he let me use my first daughters middle in my face. Saying that he “compromised” even though no one forced him to let me use that middle name. We had a big fight about it yesterday. I told him i hate the idea of naming after our parents but if the baby is a boy we can use his dads name (I hate my dads name) and if it’s a girl we can use my moms name because I don’t like his moms name and if doesn’t agree with that he can choose 2 names for each gender that he loves and I can pick between the options he gives me. This guy literally freaked out and said he wants to name after his mom and dad not after my parents. He is not willing to compromise. He said he doesn’t care what I say, this time we will name the baby what he wants (his parents names) even though I absolutely hate his moms name. I feel like thats so messed up considering i’m the one carrying this baby, and I even met him halfway to compromise plus he knows how badly his mom treats me. Please help me. Am I crazy for being pissed? How do I bring this issue up again???