( This is mostly a rant sorry lol)

My bestfriend and I aren’t really best friends anymore. It’s really sucks because I was always there for her and I saw her as a sister.

She moved half hour away in the summer.. neither of us had a car... but her boyfriend. she would come into town every weekend and see me here and there which is fine since we both have busy life’s.

Well her boyfriend cheated on her twice and she would crawl back to me because she didn’t have anyone else. the third time he cheated on her he broke up with her and she ended up in the hospital because of her depression

And of course I was there for her because I care and love her lots.

When all of these things were happening my parents moved away to Ottawa, and I had to start my own life at 20.. I felt extremely alone (thank god for my boyfriend for getting me through that tough time) I had a lot of responsibilities hit me all at once and was not ready financially to start my own life. There was a lot more going on as well but I could never talk to her about it because she would only talk about herself

While she was in the hospital she decided to become friends with a girl who is extremely controlling. We were all friends at one point back in 2017 but I couldn’t stand being controlled so I left that group.

Well ever since she has become friends with this girl again she never sees me, & ignores my texts half the time..

(I had left my wallet in her moms car and it took her 4 weeks to give it back to me because it was out of the way.) -that was a realization of who she was.

Anyways I was accepted for an apartment in November and had to wait till January 1st to move in. I asked her if she could drive the uhaul for me since she has more driving experience.. she said yes, was so excited for me and would text me saying she can’t wait for moving day

Well fast forward to December 31st

Me, my boyfriend and his brother did the move. My bestfriend bailed on me because she was with her new friends and her new boyfriend. I didn’t get a text message at all.. till 2 days later she lied to me saying she was in the hospital... Then she posted a bunch of pictures with all of her friends drinking and partying. Saying “starting the New Years with amazing people”

But I just said “hope u feel better, it’s whatever”

Oh I also want to mention that she has no job, not in school and is just chilling with friends half the time... so there is no type of excuse for her to act like this.

I have been here for 11 days and she has yet to come see me and my new place.

I don’t expect anything from anyone.. but sometimes I want a bestfriend who isn’t all about themselves.

I am not sure to give up.. but I think I want too. I am just mentally exhausted from everything related to our friendship.

Ionely

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