FOR HIM.

Yeah I know some of you are making a “face”.

But I noticed my sec toys misplaced for the last couple months.. okay I jumped to conclusions at first. Assuming that maybe I married a man in the closet.

At that time, what I didn’t know was that my husband was having issues in the bedroom.

I was too worried thinking it was my fault to even consider how it was making him feel to not be able to preform for me.

Anyways I caught on to the sex toys and offered to do some anal play with him to try something new. He immediately shut it down.

I read a ton of articles about couples and bringing anal play for him into the bedroom. I really didn’t think it would be something I would want to do.

So I called me out on the toys forcing him to be honest with me.

I know that seems wrong. But I tried everything to get him to open up without having to put everything out there.

It lead to a conversation about him getting pleasure from doing it to himself. By doing it himself made him feel gay. His words.

So I told him about all the research I did and how it’s normal to want a prostate massage because gay men don’t have a monopoly on anal play.

Again I didn’t think I would be into it. So I bought him a toy to put in before we have sex so I wouldn’t have to do it. Wasn’t as great as we expected.

So last night I’m playing with his dick and I slowly bring my hand down massaging his balls then...further down massaging his taint. I look up and he’s like

I go further down.. outlining his..you know.. applying pressure. And I look up and ask if it’s okay if I continue and he’s like..

SO I DID IT!

And oh my god I’ve never seen him so hard.

And I was totally into it. Soaking wet.

After almost getting him to cum and stopping SEVERAL TIMES. He jumps up throws me onto the bed going to take what’s his and I stop him.

I ask him to put this vibrator..in him.

Before he is in me.

And

Oh.

My.

God.

THE best orgasm either of us has ever had.

I could feel the vibration coming from him though his dick.

Ughhh.

Anyways.

Moral of the story. Try new things in bed. For you AND him.

I have never felt so close to him till now.

It was something new and we both enjoyed it.

It doesn’t hurt to leave your comfort zone to bring your partner a new pleasure.

Don’t jump to conclusions

Be open minded.