boyfriend never takes me out??

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okay guys so I’ve been like dating this guy for almost like 4 months now, (since August) and we haven’t gone on any dates or even gone out in public together. anytime we hangout it’s always at his apartment in his bed... or in the car going to his apartment. is this normal? is he like hiding me from the world? or what’s going on? someone help....

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This is what happens when you have sex early on. You cut out the dating and went straight to the sheets. Maybe that's all he wants. Have you talked to him about your relationship? Sounds like you aren't on the same page.

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The guy I was seeing a month back did this to me after I had sex with him. I got tired of it after a month then broke up with him. Sounds to me like he doesn't want to put in much effort because he's getting his needs fulfilled. You need to talk to him or get rid of him because you deserve to be in a happy BALANCED relationship. It doesn't matter if he calls you his girlfriend if that's all it takes to get you in his bed he will take advantage of it.

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Have you met any of his friends or family? Been to his job to visit? You may be the side chick._.

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Probably just a fwb🤣 talk to him about it & tell him you want to be treated like you’re his girlfriend and want him to take you out & stuff. If you wanted something serious you should’ve waited to sleep with him🤷🏻‍♀️ nothing wrong with that but yeah lol.

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Talk to him and if it doesn’t change drop him. Been there done that led it on for a year. We didn’t go on dates until recently and he called it hanging out not dates. Long story short I got played and it’s not worth it.

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So when you started dating you didn't go anywhere? Only to his place? 
Just arrange a date.

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Have you asked him to go anywhere....?

boyfriend never takes me out??

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