Okay, so I may just be out of practice (long dry spells have me half backwards), but I was getting down with my man the other day and I tried to get on top with confidence and it was pretty sad lmao. We tried regular and reverse cowgirl. This was our second time together and he likes to be more dominant so it hadn't been an issue before. In general, I have a little difficulty with being on top because my thighs are pretty full and my legs are short. There isn't a lot of bouncing when your knees barely touch the bed 😅

My new boo happens to be an ex hockey player, so he has extremely muscular thighs and hips from 14 years of skating. Is it that my legs should be higher, like at his waist? Any ideas are welcome because so far he's done most of the work during sex and I want to pleasure him more. I do have minor joint and muscle issues so my hip flexors are really tight and tend to cramp with repetitive motion 🤦‍♀️😂 Please help me have sex like I'm 26 and not 86!