Right off the bat.. I know he isn’t cheating

Me and my guy have been together for four years. WE moved in together in March of this year, we have a kid together. It seems like since I’ve moved in he just always wants to pick a fight about something. It’s ridiculous and over stupid shit.

For example: he says that I never initiate things (I’m not touchy freely, he is more than I am) so last night we get in bed and I get close and start rubbing his shoulders and arm and asked if he was tired in a flirty voice. He said yeah and started going on about school (he’s in law school) and everything going on. I figured he wanted to get sleep so I said “oh, okay” and stopped rubbing him. Cue awkward silence.. then he gets ANGRY with me that I stopped right there.. the day before he was sitting at the edge of the bed and I came up, got on my knees, and told him i wanted to suck him and then I rode him (hello spontaneous and initiating!) it was enough to upset him last night tho that he got up and I’m sure masturbated and then he left this morning without even a fuck you..

Other times he will get mad at me bc I have a headache? Like WTF. I know he’s stressed with school and I have two kids from a previous relationship that he can sometimes get stressed around but he knew about them long before any of this..

Do I need to give his unhappy ass space? I love this man but it’s getting to the point where I am always anxious and am not sure what to say or do. I’m

Ugh this shouldn’t be this complicated, I think I’m a good woman. .