Hi,

So I’m very upset and feel like my group of friends has been really judgemental towards my work performance, my private life and they feel like they can say whatever about me and my life without boundaries. So this is just a small example

It’s hurting my feeling when they feel like they’re entitled and have all rights to have their unfiltered opinions thrown at me whenever they feel like especially about my husband where they haven’t been really respectful when making comments about him. Words like “what an idiot” is most likely what they say.. I know that i should address this to them but I’m worried that they will turn negative towards me at work. I need help in this. Please let me know what you think!

Neglect is just too much for me to take considering that he was at home taking care of our baby when he himself was sick and didn’t have enough rest at night but i left them to work instead of taking a day off and make their days better. They knew he was sick didn’t say anytjing but throwing him with negative attitude is their favourite so far. I used to feel really comfortable with them and we have shared so many stories about anything but i just feel like now i lost my rights to be respected.

I know some people would treat and say whatever to their besties just because their besties but I’m completely the opposite. I treat people that i love with respect and my words will be kind because that’s how i value them but i feel like aa if they’re taking me for granted. I don’t know..