So my brother is a freshman in high school, meaning he is currently in health class and also of ~that~ age. However I’m going to the same school and through the same course a few years ago I know the course teaches basically nothing about sexual education (I am now a college student btw). In my household and family in general it is very religious and abstinence is emphasized until marriage. Myself, I am of the faith, however I am sexually active starting when I was 17 and let me tell you I knew nothing when it began but now I feel I know significantly more than what the class taught (I.e. how to be safe, etc). He’s of the age where we’ve talked about girls he’s liked, and I really want to open up to him and let him know that it’s okay to have the feelings he’s having and also to let him know he can talk to me and even if he wants to have sex he can come to me (or my boyfriend) for questions and help (even condoms since we both carry them). I know I want to open up to him, my only worry is I’m not sure if it’s the right time plus I also worry he would tell my parents about my boyfriend and I having sex (you see I still live at their house because hey living is expensive!). Any opinions?