Need opinions

Tmi post, but want options... So long story, I use to bleed something (usually spotting) most days of the month but like maybe a week out of that month not bleed then I started taking vitex to see if that would help and it actually did within the 2nd month of taking it my periods become more regular (but still irregular but better)

Usually now since taking vitex I spot about a week before I start but it's not enough for a pad I started averaging my period lasting around 9 days and this happened for about 3 months. This cycle though by friday I will have been on my period or I guess bleeding for 3 weeks with a few days in between the first week off and on a couple of those days but even the days I was it wasn't light or spoting it was enough that I needed to wear a pad and now it's only getting heavier. It's a little concerning but I also have been having bleeding a lot anyway most days in the past for a few years now so I'm just wondering does anyone else experience this? Most post I read you all don't even get a period, I kinda wish that was my problem lol I'm so sick of bleeding it's annoying and my husband and I can't ever even try to conceive when I'm always bleeding and it's strains our sex life. 😢

I have been to the obgyn a few years ago she put me on metformin for the issue I originally had with spotting all month plus I had what I was told was cysts on my ovaries and was having pain but I haven't had that in a while now , she said I had signs of pcos but never actually diagnosed me with it, but metformin didn't really help much and I lost insurance so haven't been back. Basically my question is dose anyone else experience this? What do you think I should do? I know the obvious answer is go to the doctor but I'm just curious if anyone else deals with this and what was done to help?