Getting help around the house

I'm at my breaking point. I have to kids work I'm part time working full time house in retail cause of the Holiday season. I'm beyond frustrated because I seem to be the only one that wants to keep our house clean. Before I leave for work for the night, I make sure there are dinner plans for him to cook and that our house is in great condition. But when I come home at midnight sometimes 1 a.m and the house is a mess. The kitchen has dishes piled high. I've had nice conversations to my husband, where we don't argue or get upset. And there are some days where I just get so mad that I end up yelling and screaming at him. I can't stand having a dirty house. I can't sleep after work cause my mind is going over everything that I need to take care of the next day. He says he is going to start helping out, he does for 1 day then just stops. I drive myself crazy, and all I ask for is just a little help while I'm at work. Then he gets the excuse of "I'm tired," and "I'm sore" and every time I hear that I want to punch him so hard in the face. Some days I just break down and cry because I'm so stressed out. So today I snapped and sent him a long text while he is at work. Please if I'm wrong for being this mad and frustrated tell me