TTC- known donors vs anonymous

Kaylee • Girl mommy, Dog mommy

My wife and I are TTC and we’re basically just looking into anonymous donors since we have absolutely ZERO knowledge of how or what is needed for a known donor (legally speaking). We have a couple close friends who’ve offered to be our donors but we just know know what needs to be done to protect my wife as the second parent and so the donor can’t try and take custody at any point. If anyone has any information that would be amazing!