2nd baby on the way and leaving my husband

I feel so many emotions in all kinds of way.

My husband and I just found out we are having a little girl and he is literally bothered. He told me he doesn’t want a little girl and says I hope the doctor is wrong and we have a boy. He says what can I even do with her it’ll be boring... we live with his parents and I completely hate it because they want to know so bad but I want it to be a surprise and he honestly just doesn’t care to defend the fact I want it to be a surprise. My hurt is literally crumbled and I’m starting to hate him. We had a little boy that past away 6 months ago from SID’s and I miss him so much and on Saturday on the 8th we will be celebrating his birthdate for a remembrance. I just hate that he isn’t even paying attention and says just do whatever I don’t care to be apart of the planning... I’m literally shocked and in disbelief that I got myself with a fuck head that doesn’t want to participate or even care to be apart of Anything I want to do. I seriously want to move back with my mom who is actually very excited for my pregnancy.