D&C today

I've had a D&C today. The procedure went well & the nurses were angels. Before the surgery, the Anesthetist couldn't get a line in so they'd to call in a second Anesthetist who still couldn't get a line in. Eventually they'd to call in a registrar Anesthetist who got it in on the 7th try. He then said "Is there any chance you could be pregnant before we start the anaesthesia?". He was called out of another OR & obviously didn't realise what I was having done. He clearly embarrassed and very apologetic but i found it all very traumatic as I was trying to hold it together as it was. I've a very complex medical history (cured since 2013) so I've been under anaesthesia many times for brain surgery & never felt trauma. Is it normal to feel like you've been told all over again. After I woke up, I felt like it was all fresh again (missed miscarraige 13days ago). I felt a bit calmer at the start of the week & now I'm so upset all over again. I've no pain or heavy bleeding which makes me feel guilty, like my baby is gone and they never existed x