Am I being controlling?

So I am scheduled to be induced Tuesday morning at 41 weeks, I’ve told my husband many times that after our son is born I’d like the first few hours to be just him, our daughter, his parents and I so we can bond and do skin to skin and just have it be a calm and a special moment and after the rest of his family can come meet our baby. Mind you we are talking about like 10-12 people just with his 2 sisters and their families. He always agrees to it but with an attitude and says he doesn’t understand why I would like it to be this way but he doesn’t wanna argue with me so just agrees. I feel like he thinks I’m being controlling when I really just want the first hours of my sons life to be calm and spent with us so we can bond and have those special memories with him before we have a crowd of people wanting to hold him and be all over him.