So im married. Im pregnant and about to have our daughter. My husband wants a 3sum bc he has only ever had sex with me. I would love to have a 3sum but i would want the female to have alot to do with me and just a little with him. He said he is even fine with just watching me and her have sex... but we cant find anyone to do it with. Even after i have the baby everyone says no and we tried to find someone before i got pregnant to and everyone says no.