Loss in husbands family. How to help him

Jessica • 2016🎀2019👼🏻2019🌈🎀

My husband lost a very close relative and he is really upset about it.

I’m the type of person who wants hugs and cuddles. And he is the complete opposite, he doesn’t want me to touch him when he’s upset.

I’m trying to respect his space but idk what to do for him....

Do I just leave him to it? Try talking about it? I don’t know....he wants me there for support, but doesn’t want to talk or touch....

Need some advice. 😥