My mom and her family want to do Christmas with the family next weekend and if they do that then my Husband and my stepsons won't be able to make it and they still want to do Christmas next weekend. My Husband got upset because it seems like she doesn't consider them family and told me to tell my mom that be doesn't want her around our 3 boys and our little girl that is due next month. I don't know what to do I understand where he is coming from and i don't blame him for feeling this way but I just don't know what to do.