My boyfriends not agreeing on labor/delivery rules..

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I was originally due January 10 2019 but now my daughter has a lethal disease called Hypophosphatasia where she has weak bones and might have a hard time breathing. Along with that she has a 50% chance on living and a 50% chance on dying. I personally want those moments to be just me and him if she’s not going to make it. I don’t want to share my baby with everyone else which he thinks it’s not fair and that everyone should be able to see her too. I also don’t want pictures posted everywhere if she does make it. I’m fine with taking as many pictures as you want but I do not want them on any social media until I say. I don’t want my daughter to be shown to social media with a lot of cords hooked up to her or anything like that for a few days. I honestly don’t want anyone else knowing besides family that I will be induced on the 27th. My boyfriend thinks it’s unfair that I don’t want people to post but I don’t think it’s necessary for the entire world to see. Am I more so in the wrong for thinking these things or should I actually put my foot down and say how I feel? I’ve been just brushing it off when she says no but it’s actually bothering me. I don’t want to say how I feel if it’s going to make me look like I’m only thinking about myself.