Husband can't take care of me when needed...

I love my husband but one thing that concerns me is I can't really rely on him. I just got my wisdom teeth out which were impacted and infected and I'm in so much pain and my face is so swollen I can't even talk or eat. He said he'd help me out, take care of our son but he's been complaining the whole time that it's no fun to take care of me, that he's bored, our son's not listening to him, etc. So I'm just downing pain pills so I can take care of the house because I can't take his whining.

Idk what to do, it really stresses me out that I can't even get a little help when I'm down.