My husband and I have been together 18 years. In that time we have both gone to college and built a great life. We have a three year old and I am currently pregnant with number two. It’s been a rough pregnancy journey but we are all hanging in there.

We aren’t flashy people. He currently has a very high paying job but we save the majority of the money so we can be financially independent, we plan on being able to retire in about three years.

I know he loves me but he has never been one for extravagant gifts. We were Christmas shopping this weekend and he took me to Cartier. Asked my opinion on a beautiful necklace and then bought it. $3000! He had them wrap it up and is putting it under the tree. I am so so shocked since he has never done anything like this before.

I don’t think I am going to try and compete with him for gifts but feel a bit overwhelmed. Not sure what I can put under the tree that will be in the same league. I’m too pregnant fat for sexy lingerie even! Do I try and get him something as special or what?