“Theoretically” (Lol not really but...)

If your boyfriend kept smoking and sometimes drinking with a girl who liked him, and he didn’t tell that girl that u guys are dating would that not be sus to you guys?

He says “I don’t want to hurt her feelings” and “I don’t like her and she didn’t pull any moves so it doesn’t matter, she will get over me”.

The sole reason he doesn’t want to tell her is because it will hurt her feelings and he doesn’t want to hurt anyone. Also she keeps asking your boyfriend to date her but he keeps making up an excuse that “he’s not ready for a relationship”, even thought he is dating u.

He told everyone he is dating u but her....

And he spent 7 hours with her on a Saturday night smoking at her dorm with her while u went back home.

Also the two of them met on tinder and were trying to date for a while until she one day ghosted him. Now she came back and he still for some reason wants to be her friend and hang out with her? Says he’s just using her as a smoke buddy?? And now he decided to date u and u have been dating for a month.

Please tell me I’m not the only one who finds this odd....