Can’t Climax😭

My boyfriend and I have been having a problem getting him to climax/orgasm/c💦m. We recently decided to work on a little girl but, that’s where the problem comes in. We haven’t had a real opportunity to work on the baby b|c, he’s having trouble achieving an orgasm. The sex is amazing and it lasts. Even when he doesn’t get his, he makes sure i get mines (nostalgia 🤣😌.) Every time I ask him if I’m the problem his answer remains the same... “this has never happened before and I’m just as concerned as you!” It’s like when we’re apart he’s ready to put out my “fire” but, when we get together he gets nervous...extremely nervous 😟 please note the baby is his idea and after suffering the loss of a child 2 yrs ago i can’t contain my excitement. Our relationship is still sorta fresh but, we were friends for awhile.

It’s like when he gets close to the orgasm acts as though he’s about to c💦m but, his solider goes “Brick-mode” and it’s like starting over. It’s starting to mess with his “pride” and the way he thinks of himself. Could he be too excited? Should we bring Adult games/toys into the bedroom? Role play? I wanna be able to calm him down completely. He’s shyer than me sometimes lol