Head too aggressive?

I was seeing a guy who really liked sloppy, aggressive head and I became really good at giving him what he liked. When I started seeing my new man, I tried to give it to him the same way and he told me that my head game was “weak” and is too aggressive. It made him go soft and made me feel really insecure. I didn’t even know what to do we just stopped hooking up it was so awkward.

I love giving head and I want to make him feel good. And I feel like I’m confident that I can be more gentle with it next time, but since he said that I feel like maybe I’m doing it all wrong 😞.

I’m just nervous to even go back to it now knowing he doesn’t like the way I do it. Anyone else experience this? Any tips?