Divorce in the military

Okay so I know this is a long shot, but it’s worth a try. Is anyone else dual military and trying to get a divorce. I’m basically stuck in a shitty marriage because of the military. We are both active duty army. We have a three month old together. He cheats, lies, he has hit me before, and he never helps with our daughter. I need to get out of the marriage. But basically, because we are both in the army, if we got a divorce, one of us would have to live in the barracks. And you are not allowed to have a child in the barracks obviously. We are also stationed overseas so that makes this even more difficult. And because I’m the one initiating it, they would most likely put me in the barracks. Which means I would lose my child most of the time. So in order to not lose my child, I basically have to stay in a marriage that makes me so depressed and crazy. ANY military folks out there?! 😩