How long did it take?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 3 months now (we were both virgins) and he cums really quick. How long after having sex for the first time until your man starts lasting longer? (I don’t expect him to last long after three months, but I’m curious).

Answer

Honestly, probably never.  Most men aren’t like how it is in porn. 
He just needs to work around it.
Example: 
He needs to learn how to eat pussy, because once you’ve had an orgasm, does it really matter if he goes 1 or 10 minutes?
He needs to practice more. That means masturbate (oh, the dirty, dirty word). You can’t get better if you don’t practice. He should know exactly how many times he can go in-and-out before magic happens. Once he knows that, pressure is off.  The more comfortable he is with his situation, the better it will be. 
He needs to learn positions that work better. Doggy style is bad. Cowgirl, or missionary is good.  My wife loves when I go deep and just sit there, she moves her hips a little to get the right spot, but there isn’t large amounts of thrusting, so longer lasting. 
He needs to understand he doesn’t need to pound you like a monkey all the time. Slow works too, he can take it out and reset a bit too. Maybe eat pussy again (now you’ve had 2 orgasms).  Can he go twice?  Just because he made magic, doesn’t mean he’s gotta stop. 
Keep the hand and mouth work on him to a minimum.  When doing a blowjob, keep the hands and stroking out of it. Just use your mouth, be gentile, and don’t get too crazy with the tongue on the sensitive bit below the head. (It still feels good). 
Lastly, TELL HIM TO RELAX.

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My boyfriend has been having sex almost 10 years and he still doesn’t last very long most of the time lmao. He has days where he can go 15 minutes and other days he can only go like 5 lmao. Sometimes guys just don’t last that long. Lucky for me he can still get me off in that amount of time

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Nooooooo. No no no. YOU have to make it last longer. Foreplay. Get him started but don’t let him finish. Have him do things to you.if he cums fast don’t let him

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I think it all just depends my husband can do both were he lasts a while and other times finishes really fast. If he wants to last longer he normally pulls out for a few min to try and stop the sensation but doesn’t stop with me to make things weird he just does some other things until he thinks he can handle it again. I think it comes with learning about control and the more consistent I guess the less likely he is to finish faster. If we do it 3 times a week my husband gets to where he just can’t finish because it’s not there haha I kinda feel bad for him when that happens. Hope this kinda helps.

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