How many weeks is really the best/normal time to have your baby shower? I am currently 21 weeks. We are in the process of looking for a bigger home. I haven’t even began to think about the nursery. We live in a small 3 bed 2 bath home. I really do not want to room my son and step son together as I feel like they need their own space at times. However I would like to start getting things together and pick things out so if I need anything after baby shower I will have plenty of time to get those things or at least ordered. We live just a little south of Dallas Tx. Unfortunately everything is very high around here. So finding the best home for our family has been challenging.