Okay. I’ve had it.

I used to think there bond was amazing.

That is was so nice he does lots of things for her and keeps in contact..

We have officially been dating 2+ years now, I have a daughter from a previous relationship that he has taken on, life has been great besides this ...

His mother txts him from the moment she wakes up till when she goes to sleep. All day. Wants to know what this man is doing.

She goes into his work and always txts “hey are you here”. If he’s not there she will ask the associates where he is. If he doesn’t reply quick enough she will text me and ask “ is he really sick today?”. It is so effin annoying 🥵.

If he is sick she will want to cater to him. “Do you need any medication or food? I can bring it to you”.

I remind him that these are my duties !!! I am supposed to take care of you. I feel like this women is so invasive ! She refuses to let go of her son. I sometimes feel as if we are in competition with eachother. She gets upset when I redo our house and it looks VERY GOOD because he doesn’t need her advice anymore...

There’s so many more little things she does that drives me wild....

SO MY QUESTION:

How do I come across very nicely about telling her to kind of back off or explaining to my man that this is to much.

I have tried to bring it up in the past but he always replies with “well hun she’s old and lonely “. I’m sorry but it just doesn’t cut it for me. Her husband is still alive and she has friends so I don’t no why we are dealing with this !

Please help before I lose my mind 🤯