Losing my virginity

Ok so I’ve been with this guy for a few months and we decided to have sex, and the first time (it was my first time) we did it REALLY hurt and like I was expecting that cuz I’ve heard that before...

Then we did it again and it hurt a bit less but not as much as the first time... we’ve done it about 5 or 6 times now and it doesn’t hurt but it doesn’t feel good... like it just feels like a penis is going in and out of me I don’t feel like idk “sex” I guess...

I was wondering if anyone knows what’s up