So I usually don’t become friends with coworkers and I just keep strictly working relationships. But I have grown to become close to a co worker name Erica. We became close after three years of working with her. And our children are best friends and we go over each other’s house , do family events together & everything. I just learned that she has been talking behind my back and about my husband to my other co workers. Pretty much bashing me for being a wife and submissive to my husband and taking care of my children because she does things differently and saying my husband runs over me and everything. It was hard for me to believe at first but as soon as one of my co workers mentioned something that I only told her only . I knew she said those things. She has done something like this similar before when I was getting married to my husband and she told another co worker that she haven’t even met my husband before so she don’t know if she wants to do a bachelorette party for me. We moved passed that after hearing she said that from somebody else. But after this , enough is enough so I just decided to cut her off without any explanation. I’m glad I found out before the New Years cause I want positive people around me and ruling out the negative 🙂