What are your opinions on your SO going to strip clubs? My old opinion was that as long as it was for a special occasion (bachelor party etc) and not just any old time it was okay, I was okay with him getting a lap dance even (as long as he didn’t spend a ton of money) and as long as he only looked, no touching them. But now my opinion has changed because I found out that my husband has a habit of touching their boobs and ass while he gets a lap dance which to me is cheating. To me whether they are a stripper or any other woman he shouldn’t be touching them in any area like that. So now I’m extremely against him going just because I feel like he would do that again and I can’t trust him to keep his hands to himself. Now if he has come clean with everything (which I feel he has) it was only on two occasions, a friend’s bachelor party and then for his own bachelor party. But I’m still upset, I feel like he betrayed me because he knew how I felt before he went, I told him I was not okay with him touching but still did it. We have been married for a few years so this happened a couple years ago but I didn’t find out until well after we were married, and it still bothers me (also because I had point blank asked him what he had done there after he got back from his bachelor party and he lied to me about it and for so long) Does anyone else feel the same or should I just let this go?