How to tell him!!!

Hii guys, i want to ask about something that i’ve been thinking about for a long time. So, when me and my man usually have sex it feels amazing and everything is perfect between us, but the problem is that he likes things to be slow, smooth, soft, and romantic, and i do really enjoy it, but sometimes i feel that i want it to be different maybe little rough or controllable, i don’t know how to explain it but something different than the romantic and gentle way. And i have no idea how to tell him or show it indirectly so he can change a little bit😩😩 i love him so much but i just want to feel something different....