Hi ladies,

I write this with a heavy heart, but I know I did the right thing. I met someone last Spring and we hit it off. Got the every day texts, not much emotion though....I was patient at first. There were some snags though...he had 3 kids, worked alot and never went out with me. I supported him through his move, financial crisis (I never gave money). This went on for almost 10 months, sex was amazing but something was missing, I was often frustrated and sad. I know - that feeling of being someone's partner, being appreciated. I read alot of your posts and wish I experienced this - the warm sediments, small gestures of love. It never happened. He claimed work and the kids kept him busy.

We didn't spend the holidays together, it hurt. I spent New Years alone last night because he worked on the <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> and today (he did leave voice messages, I found it thoughtless). To make a long entry short, I woke up this morning and he wanted me to come over for 2 hours then he was going for his kids. I refused, something in me said, ENOUGH OF THIS, YOU CAN DO BETTER. I told him (3rd time) what I want and wasn't getting and I left the relationship, after another one of his excuses of trying to get his life together.

While I feel sad, disappointed....another part of me feels empowered, proud of myself, and at peace. I know in my heart the right guy will see my qualities to be a girlfriend/a wife in the future, not this one. I AM NOT A FLING BUT THE REAL THING. I just needed to vent on here, or maybe help someone on here who feels they deserve better too and not to be treated this way.....you do not deserve to be made 2nd in a relationship. I am looking forward to this year, I know great things are about to happen. It is amazing the feeling of relief, mixed feelings but filled with hope, love and resilience.

Happy New Year 🎉🥂🍾, ladies, thanks for listening!