Am I being dramatic?

Question

So recently I had my baby girl in the beginning of December, it was a perfect delivery and everything was amazing. But then now still to this day I am pissed at my in laws. My MIL and SIL never bothered to ask how I was or reach out to me. They would only talk to my husband. Well when I had our daughter neither of them congratulated me at all. My MIL visited us at the hospital and kept telling my husband what a good job he did and how our daughter is perfect. All I got was a “HI”. My SIL lives in a different state, but she texted my husband congrats and how proud she is of him. My husband has an android so he can’t FaceTime. So my SIL calls me to FaceTime but asks where her brother is and wants to see our daughter. No congrats or anything. Then she posts on social media a pic of just my husband and daughter saying she is an auntie and how proud she is of her brother....is it wrong that I don’t want my MIL or SIL around my daughter if they can’t respect me?
UPDATE: Before anyone gets confused, before I got pregnant I tried my very best to try and have a in law relationship with my MIL and SIL. I went as far as throwing birthday parties for my nephews, setting up dinners for the whole family and cooking so we all could be together. Texted them first to just say hi and see how theyre doing but never got anything in response. Ive mentioned it to my husband and he tried asking them why they don’t want anything to do with me and they’re response was “I don’t try enough and their life’s are far more busy and important to have time to talk to me”.

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They just seem like ass holes (sorry not sorry) they don’t seem very pleasant to be around. I would be very up front with your husband and tell him your not looking for him to intervene an you don’t want his relationship to change with his family and you want your child to have a relationship with his family buuuut your not going to be going out of your way to please them any more! And be civil and be nice but don’t go do it of your way for people who are not treating you the same way! I could never imagine my mil being that way! My mil is great! Even with the relationship we have my husband still tells me I don’t need to go out of my way for any one even his family so hopefully you husand will support you an understand!

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I would stop answering your SIL FaceTime calls. She can download tango on her phone or video chat over Facebook messenger. If she’s not gonna have the manners and decency to say anything to you about how you are then she doesn’t need to use you like that. And hello, your husband did NOT have a baby pulled out of him. So: I will say I’m proud of you for all your hard work and congratulations to YOU for your baby 💕
Give them the same amount of effort and decency they give you. And if that means they see you and the baby less, that’s on them not you. See if that makes them see things any different.

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Ooooooo you know what.. if they continued with bull crap I would never let them hold my baby. I’m cruel bitch when people aren’t nice to me for no reason. Whatever you do don’t let them hold the baby till you talk about why they acting like bitches and I love how they’re  like oo we’re are so proud of my son/brother. Fuck them.. they didn’t push a baby out for however long it takes my god. Okay I’m done ranting but just cherish your baby and take lots of photos to were they are super jealous!! I’m not even kidding . Oh and to answer your question. No hunny you are not being dramatic lol

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No way, you’re completely justified!! His family sounds like assholes and I can’t believe he’s letting them do this to you! My husband wouldn’t let them ignore me because you are his family and theirs as well. But you can’t make people talk to you so,
Ignore them when they call to FaceTime him, ignore them when you see them, unfriend them on fb ect. Don’t let them around your daughter unless you say so. They’re treating you like an incubator or a surrogate that’s suppose to shut up and leave now that the baby’s here🙄 good luck ! 
Also, going off on them helps sometimes too.

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You’re definitely not being dramatic. This doesn’t sound right at all. I don’t know how to help you since you’ve mentioned that you already have tried improving your relationship with them

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