So I live in Kentucky, and my boyfriend whom I live and have a child with is considering a job In California (if your not from America is literally across country) and I’m beyond upset! He needs the money but it leaves me in the dust as far as working or having anyone because I have no decent family for support or help with my baby and 2 other children from a previous relationship and I have no clue how I’m going to do that, I feel like it’s basically going to end us because we have no idea of the time length when he will be able to go back and fourth. I have no idea what to say or do, I don’t want to hold him back but it’s like I don’t even matter and his mind is made up just for money! Someone please give me some advice or something?? I don’t even know what to say to him because I know if I tell him to stay and not take it he’s going to get mad and think I’m selfish.