Husband threw a bottle at me

This happened about 30 minutes ago. Our daughter woke up and was having a hard time going back out. My husband was holding her while I was running and getting things ready to go to walmart and get a gallong of milk. He was asking why i didnt get one earlier, and honestly i didnt because it was 8pm, my daughter or i hadnt had dinner yet, and we have a thing of almond milk in the fridge. I figured she would be fine until tomorrow.

All of that turned into an arguement, where my husband was saying I was treating our daughter like shit and that I was copping an additude with him. I told him to stop talking down to me like i was a child. During our arguement, i see my daughters bottle fly at my, hit the wall, and drop to the floor spilling everything inside. Shes 2, she cant throw like that.. so had to have been him.

Not the 1st time hes done this shit. A few months ago, we were arguing and he got mad and threw his phone charger at me.

No idea how to handle this. I already got mad and told him how dare he throw anything at me. He was trying to back peddle and justify it, and i flat out told him that doesnt matter. You dont throw stuff at your wife, period. Especially if your wife is the only one paying the bills in this house and paying for your medical supplies, insurance, financial support, etc.

How to handle?