So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9months - he’s my first serious relationship and also first/only person I’ve had sex with. Before dating him I’d kissed a few people including a girl - it was drunk at a party but I realised afterwards that I really really liked it. In trying to work myself out before dating the guy I’m with now I decided I was sexually attracted to girls (not sure if romantically) and had never been able to further test this or confirm it or anything and then both romantically and sexually attracted to males. Recently I’ve been really wanting to have sex with girls, like badly this is really bothering me and I don’t know how to bring it up to my boyfriend (or whether I should at all) or even fulfil my urges or what to do about it at all. This is becoming almost a problem with how badly I feel this way and how badly I want to make out with some girls.

In saying this I don’t want to leave my boyfriend I love him a lot. Please help, what should I do??