My husband said I was pushing him away just because I tried to get him to understand that I'm not going to put up with him always talking to me like sh*t and can never just be happy with me, everything has to be an argument!!! All I wanted was for him to grow up a little and to understand where he is wrong and hurtful at times.. if I'm "pushing him away" what should I do?

**UPDATE**

We've also been split up twice already.. We had our marriage annulled (if that's how u spell it) and we split up and almost went through a divorce but didn't and the last time was over how he treated me, seems like every time we get back together everything is perfectly fine and perfect then after a month or so he goes back to the same way..