I just need to get this out, I'm terrified what my mom is going to do. Before you freak, I'm almost 25, married and have a 15 month old. We live next to my mom in another building complex for almost a year but I'm a SAHM.

A few months ago my husband lost his job, we think because of him being military but they said that he messed up alot. He didn't, worked long hrs and weekends so I can stay home. He hasn't worked but we had saved up quite a bit of money because of past experiences. He has been pinning for a job on a base 2 hrs away this whole time, He had an interview yesterday. He called to tell me it went great but... He didn't realize that it's going to be a bit longer. Even though I told him that it would be, my parents, my whole family said the samething. We are a military family, it stopped with my brother and I on this side if the family. So now to keep being able to pay for our insurance and a roof over our heads, and since out daughter is still really little, we have to move at the end of this month. I was prepared to move in April not this month. We are able to move in with a buddy of his, he says he's never home and spends a lot if his time at his gfs house anyway. I broke down, I'm freaking out with moving. Having to pack, yet again. We do this every year, no seriously. Every. Year. For the last 6 going on 7 years. From dorm back home, back to a dorm, to a house apartment to another house apartment, to a house, to another house, to an apartment, and now to a buddy's house. I'm so tired of moving. It wouldn't be so bad if I didn't have to take care of a child. I could pack our place in 2 days and unpack in a day. But since we have a baby it's going to take all month to pack. I have to figure out what stays with us in our room and what's going in storage, but a good thing is not alot if it will be. He has a house but lives like a bachelor, apparently his bed was just laying in the living room. But not the point im making. Im a SAHM the only people i see regularly is my husband, my baby, and my mom. That's it. No one I know stays home because they have to work, the only sahm mom I know lives 3 hours away but we would be about 1.5 from her when we move. The other problem is I have to find a new doctor for my baby, again. This'll be her 3rd one I think, I finally found one sorta liked and now we have to leave.

I had planned on telling my mom today about the move during breakfast, after getting my nails done (Christmas present) but now she's sick. I haven't decided if I'm going still because now I have no one to watch her... She should be fine sitting on my lap but idk... But I'm am so scared to tell her because I know exactly what's she's going to do. She's going to be super upset then angry because she told him to get an in between job and then start freaking out with me, which will make it worst. I have anxiety and I get it from my mom, alot of my mental health issues are from her actually. My kid is going to be super screwed when she's older... But here I am typing this to get my emotions under check because later today I have to tell her, she needs to come to grips with it before we leave. And I need boxes... lots of boxes... But hopefully I'll be getting pictures of the place we will be staying and that'll help with some of my issues with moving and storing... hopefully. Well now I need to go up my baby and get ready to go. Thanks for reading... maybe offer words of motivation or whatever you think will help because I'm going to need it. This was already a super busy month even before the move.