I’m having a miscarriage

Megan

It hasn’t been confirmed yet but it’s obvious and I’m not naive. I started bleeding Thursday and my drs office advised me to go to the ER since I hadn’t seen my dr yet. After 4 hours in the ER alone I left with pretty much no answers. My urine test was negative, which they believe was faulty because my beta numbers were 570. The ultrasound tech wouldn’t let me see the screen and she didn’t say a word. She said someone would read it and send the report down to the ER doctor. He came in and told me it showed a gestational sac and yolk sac consistent with a beta of 570. But that he felt at 6 weeks my numbers should be higher and he should be seeing more. Since then my bleeding has gotten much heavier and I’ve had consistent cramping. I don’t see my doctor until Monday. We didn’t tell anyone that I was pregnant so I have no one to talk to about this other than my husband who doesn’t seem to take it as that big of a deal. I’m really struggling with the fact that I’m a failure. That my body is completely failing me. I just don’t understand what I did wrong. I have 2 other healthy children and have never had any problems during pregnancy.