Okay so me and my bf have tried having sex 2 times now and the first time when he tried to put it in it was super hard and too tight and hurt too bad so we just stopped then the second time same thing but it went in one time and it hurt a lot! Idk if this is normal I know first time pain is different for everyone and I’ve never really experienced much pain besides period cramps before so maybe I’m just a pussy? Is there any way to lessen the pain bc at this point I’m just scared to have sex bc of the pain:(