9dpo AF due on 11th Jan

Ru

Hi guys, this is my 4th month ttc and even this time around I feel like I'll get a BFN. I don't have any symptoms and no spotting till now. I know I'm not out till AF shows up, but I've heard people get BFP at 9dpo and had sore breasts or spotting by this time. Anyone in the same boat? Trying to be positive though. Goodluck to all ttc