I’m angry and I don’t know who to talk to so I thought this was a safe place to get opinions (at least that’s what I’m hoping).

My husband and I have been separated since early November due to a loss of trust and my husband cheating on me for our entire relationship. We probably shouldn’t have gotten married but I thought he would stop and get better. The cheating consisted of posting ads on Craigslist asking for sex, having an emotional affair with a women for years, obtaining a tinder account and seeking women to meet for sex, and constantly asking women for nude photos through snap chat. The affair came to light when I was 5 months pregnant and he told me he had feelings for her. He told me he would get therapy and stop cheating. He’s told me he’s never physically cheated but I still view all the things he has done as cheating. In the past two months he’s called the woman twice, received photos from women, and got drunk in his car at a gas station.

I told him I was done and moving on. I told him that I wanted a divorce once I finish my masters in May because it would be too much on my plate to do now. He said he still wants to work things out, and I told him I wasn’t holding my breath that he could change.

I went out for New Year’s <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> with my sister and a guy kissed me at midnight. I stupidly told him about it. And now he believes that’s the worst betrayal and it is worse than all he has done. Separated means not together, correct? Am I wrong?